What matters

Though the Bible doesn’t say, I’ve often wondered what the Lord was doing in Esau’s heart during the time that he was separated from his family. One wonders if the loneliness and separation may have prompted some serious introspection on Esau’s part. During the time of estrangement from his family and his past, did Esau reflect upon how lightly had considered his birthright to be? Did he contemplate his responsibility for adding to the dysfunctionality in his biological family by currying favor with his father through his arrogance?

Whatever the case may be, when he saw his brother’s humility that stood in stark contrast to his previous arrogance and scheming, his heart was filled with compassion as they met. The tears and hugs of reconciliation caused Jacob to state that this welcome is like seeing God’s face.

Indeed, whenever reconciliation takes place, it is like seeing God’s face. Too many families allow disputes over property and historic grievances to separate them. The question each participant in family disputes need to address is this; what do they want most of all? Do they want to have personal vindication or would they prefer to see God’s face through reconciliation?

Let us determine to seek God’s face most of all, for in the light of eternity, nothing else really matters!